December 1, 2013

Isolated

(Fragment 3)
It was small wonder that my father began walking down the road to Taycheedah to play cards with the men.  He accused her of being solitary and none of the neighbors good enough to invite over.  To tell the truth, that's the way it was.  She was above them in education, had taught school and read every book she could.  She even tried Christian Science, but it never quite came off.

[Editor's Note:  With this fragment, it seems I have finally come to an end, because I cannot find, and may not have preserved, Polly's letters from the 1970's.  My plan now is to re-arrange these extracts in chronological order and then, perhaps, find a way to publish them as a little book.]

November 28, 2013

Sleeping porch

(Fragent 2)
After about two years [at the sanatorium], when my mother learned how to make a place to sleep outdoors in the cold no matter what the weather, we all went back together again.  Mother had a porch built so that a window of the house opened on the center of the bed.  Early in the evening she would line her bed with hot water bottles and bricks.  She knit herself warm caps and mittens and always made a joke when she went thru the window.  There was a long-haired black hide that went on top, but I never knew the name of it.

November 27, 2013

Breakup

(Final fragment 1)
[When Minnie went to the TB sanatorium, Polly went to live with her Aunt Olga] and my father gave my brother to his mother at Fond du Lac where her daughter Lois and husband Bill McWhorter lived.

November 25, 2013

Moral

(Lyndon 24)
So this is the life of one who had no steady influence to guide him and who had not enough ambition within himself to make something of himself.

November 23, 2013

Funeral

(Lyndon 23)
I think I went to the funeral alone.  Daddy phoned and told me to keep my chin up and he'd be home as fast as he could; he had seen the papers.  I recall there were some from Ripon  ...  [more from Fond du Lac].  The young man, very nice looking in a dark suit  (cannot think of his name:  A--?  G--?  (Gutreiter? perhaps) shook hands with me and spoke very well expressing his sympathy.

November 21, 2013

The accident

(Lyndon 22)
A storm blew up fast and the boat turned over.  As I remember it, Lyn let the friend have the gasolene can to hang on to as Lyn was a fairly strong swimmer.  But wearing a leather jacket etc. he hardly had a chance.  We all felt so sorry for his dying fighting the water, but I mourned a life wasted.

November 19, 2013

Circumstances

(Lyndon 21)
My father went on to say that Lyndon and a friend were working at a resort on Lake Winnebago (I think) [Beaver Dam, actually] and they had gone out in a small gasoline launch for fish on a very overcast day.  Perhaps they were asked to do this to serve fish at the resort.

November 16, 2013

Downed

(Lyndon 20)
[In 1938] one morning quite early, about 7  --  I think we were living on the hill in Richland Center and Daddy was on one of his trips to Milwaukee  --  the phone rang and it was my father.  "Well," he said, so weary, "Lyndon is drowned."  My heart sank.

November 14, 2013

Interim

(Lyndon 19)
You can see there was no good stabilizing influence in his life.  I think he worked different places, like factories, for a short spell.

November 12, 2013

Graceless

(Lyndon 18)
Much later Lyndon and Grace broke up.  He said her mother and their priest were against him because he was not Roman Catholic and kept hectoring her until she gave in.  I got the impression the marriage was annulled.  He felt bad about that.

November 10, 2013

Grace

(Lyndon 17)
Life went on....  On afternoon when we lived on Beaumont Avenue in Milwaukee [in 1930s] he drove up with a pretty nice tall dark haired girl, Grace [Egan].  Did he introduce her as his wife?  Maybe.  I could see they cared for each other.

November 7, 2013

Blank

(Lyndon 16)
I have been trying to think whether Lyndon came out to Green Lake when we did get married, but I can't remember him there at all.

November 5, 2013

What to do?

(Lyndon 15)
I recall a conversation we had alone one late afternoon.  He said, "Well, I suppose you are going to marry Sir Kay?"  I said yes, I supposed so.  And asked what he was going to do.  He spoke very sadly.  Said he didn't know.  He had no prospects, no talents, no education, no expectations.  I remember feeling very sorry, and helpless.

November 3, 2013

Bumming

(Lyndon 14)
Sometimes he would go on long trips with friends out West, bumming their way.  My father was always so worried.  But he always came back with lots to tell.  And no money.

November 2, 2013

His humor

(Lyndon 13)
One thing Lyndon loved was comedy in movies, slapstick.  He would tell about it later and laugh heartily.  He had for a friend a tall thin negro who was always falling down awkwardly or getting in funny situations, and Lyn loved to tell us about it and laugh until he nearly choked.  I think I said he should be careful of choosing his friends, but he knew better than I what he wanted to do.

October 31, 2013

Getting by

(Lyndon 12)
Lyndon never missed a class in school, but just got by.  He never did any outside study at all.  In high school one of his best subjects was art, all done in the classroom.  He got to staying out nights with friends we didn't know.

October 29, 2013

Free spirit

(Lyndon 11)
Lu never thought about it [i.e. education] at all.  She wanted every one there when dinner was ready, tried to help us when we asked her, was ready to go to the park to swim, more than generous with handing out money for movies, ice cream, etc.  In ways she was like a child herself.  ...

October 27, 2013

Backup

(Lyndon 10)
So you can see how it was.  I had had my mother long enough to have been influenced by her ideals.  I wanted to go to school.  My father often told me I could go as long as I wanted, be a doctor, and he would back me up.

October 24, 2013

Lu

 (Lyndon 9)
[After my mother died in 1919] my father married within the year to a woman [Lu] so opposite to my mother.  She was healthy, used cosmetics, had about a fourth grade education, never thought about God, but did go for the right.  She was good hearted, a hard worker, could now sew at all, could cook, no experience with kids.

October 22, 2013

Pa & Ma Parsons

(Lyndon 8)
You can see where the discipline was seated in our family.  My father liked above all harmony, love for each other, pride in achievement.  My mother was for Truth, perfection, sticking it out, love of God, and of course she loved us too.  But we often forgot that because she was stern and always demanding our best.